Change The Conversation – A Deep Dive Into After Effects Of Assault

Two survivors of assault talk about their experience and the after effects…

Advice For Hard Working Men That Want To Keep Their Committed Relationship

Sometimes I hear the suffering of men who don’t understand the women that they love. I occasionally offer a few words of advice. This video is one of them….

Women’s March Breaks History Records

Donald Trump’s team seems to ignore the existence of facts. They say his inauguration was YUGE bigger than any one before. This is not true. What is true that millions of people marched all over the world estimates are between 3 million to 4.5 million. Trump lives in his alternative reality. All I know is I was in Los Angeles and it was one of the largest events I ever had the pleasure to be apart. Here are just a few pictures that I took.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Grandstanding Meryl Streep Causing Further Division?

No doubt Meryl Streep is a talented actress. She has the right to her opinion and we as an audience have the right to voice our opinion that is how an open forum of communication works. There were many hurt feelings beyond Donald Trump’s after Streep received her Lifetime Achievement Award from the Golden Globes on Sunday. A little back story, many times artists are told ahead of time that they will be receiving an award in order to get them to appear on a show. Therefore, it is likely to assume that Meryl Streep was aptly prepared with a memorized speech in her head or helped remembered by the monitors. Although I agree with what she said in regards to Trump, I didn’t agree with what she said about the MMA (Mixed Martial Arts) not being an art. One can like a whole pizza except for soggy crust.
Meryl Streep’s speech and the aftermath brought up some interesting points about whether or not she should have spoke out and up during her acceptance speech and who has the “right” to speak up and out about certain topics at all. After some heated twitter trolling, another photographer (Skittles) and I talked about Meryl Streep’s diss moment regarding Elitism and communication.

Amanda Nunes Is The Champion: Lessons From Rousey’s Loss

I’ve been away for awhile here. I’m back and its the Chinese Year of the Rooster which is ironic on many levels. Here is my take on the Amanda Nunes vs. Ronda Rousey UFC 207 mind blowing fight.

Safety Tips For Post President Elect Trump World

There has been a rise in hateful harassment after the election. Assault, harassment and crime happen so let us be proactive instead of just victims.
I plan to do more videos in the near future.

Happy Birthday Billy Bush

exclusive-kat-billy-bush-3aAlthough you may be celebrating your birthday under unusual circumstances with the Trump Access Hollywood video backlash, please enjoy your day with your friends & family. Especially your family that includes 3 daughters that someday will have to navigate the dangerous waters of sexual harassment, objectification, power games by superiors and sexual assault. Your daughters will have to someday learn how to {not} expect colleagues to have their back especially when co-workers are trying to be liked by bosses or big wigs.

Your daughters will also have to learn that many men act and think the way their father did in that video. Some men “act” one way in public and another in private. Your children will also learn how challenging it is for women to work in a field where men dominate often with brute force and the difficulty of getting ahead just based on merit and not by looks or giving out sexual favors. Your girls will also find out that some men/women will punish them for speaking up and speaking out. In the coming years, your daughters will learn that some bosses will attempt to fire them for not having sex or for becoming pregnant.

In the Access Hollywood hot mic video, you also demonstrate how manipulative a person can be when they are “coaching” a person to “be nice” to a superior. You enabled a man who just bragged about being able to do whatever he wanted because he was rich. This is what your daughters will have to look forward to – a world where the rich, entitled & powerful get away with being a sexual predator because people like you laugh it off and encourage it.

So happy birthday Billy Bush. Thank you for being a pawn in the game and bringing work place ethics and “locker room talk” to the forefront. Thank you for triggering the pain and the anguish of so many (not just) women who have had to put up with sexual harassment, intimidation, unwanted advances and the good old boy type of Neanderthal actions that so many still think are harmless. Trump’s talk – bragging about assaulting women, forcibly kissing them is not normal or harmless. It is sick. Your encouragement is shameful.

Your daughters [and not to forget your wife] like all of us deserve better. So please enjoy your birthday. May it bring you more wisdom and grace. Don’t worry about losing your position at NBC & The Today Show. I’m certain you can get a new job at FOX.
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Donald Trump Is The Manchurian Candidate

Words can not express my disgust over Donald Trump being the GOP nominee for the Presidency of The United States. A man that has little or no self control is one step away from the oval office? Really? Donald Trump is a destructive force that is undermining any good that America stands for.

NBC and the Today Show have suspended Trump’s partner in crime Billy Bush for the leaked lewd video. NBC needs to fire Bush PERIOD! Why they hired him in the first place is beyond me. The Today Show viewership is mostly women and they went with that Bozo!

Here is my thoughts on Trump being “The Manchurian Candidate” in real time, right now.

Donald Trump Enforces Rape Culture & Sexual Abuse

Sometimes I feel America is living vicariously in a snuff film. We are experiencing the Fall of the United States – The Fall of the New Rome. Donald Trump is WRONG for so many reasons. It is unbelievable that the Republican Party didn’t vet their candidate better. How could they not know about all of his misogyny, his harassment, his own 1st wife accusing him of rape and pulling out her hair, his numerous bankruptcies, his ties with the mob, his tax dodging and his numerous lawsuits for not paying contractors?

They had to know. They did know. They believed the simple American people would just go along for the ride. Or they created Trump to cause such a fracture that America never truly recovers.

Donald Trump even sexually objectifies his own daughters. And his entourage laughed it off in interviews as if it is no big deal. So it follows that Trump grooms his girls to be objectified and deemed worthless when they “hit a certain age”. Donald Trump’s numerous documented comments have been going on for decades. His frat boyish immaturity of speaking about and dealing with women is a mentally underdeveloped trait. This man is not fit for the Presidency. He is not morally, intellectually, emotionally, mentally and spiritually qualified for the job. He is an embarrassment to decency. The preponderance of rape culture has to be called out for what it is and the damage that it has done and will do in the future.

Here are more on my thoughts on the most recent lewd leaked video of Billy Bush and Donald Trump speaking about women. It is time for Women to stop allowing this generational accepting of abuse.