Safety Tips For Post President Elect Trump World

There has been a rise in hateful harassment after the election. Assault, harassment and crime happen so let us be proactive instead of just victims.
I plan to do more videos in the near future.

Happy Birthday Billy Bush

exclusive-kat-billy-bush-3aAlthough you may be celebrating your birthday under unusual circumstances with the Trump Access Hollywood video backlash, please enjoy your day with your friends & family. Especially your family that includes 3 daughters that someday will have to navigate the dangerous waters of sexual harassment, objectification, power games by superiors and sexual assault. Your daughters will have to someday learn how to {not} expect colleagues to have their back especially when co-workers are trying to be liked by bosses or big wigs.

Your daughters will also have to learn that many men act and think the way their father did in that video. Some men “act” one way in public and another in private. Your children will also learn how challenging it is for women to work in a field where men dominate often with brute force and the difficulty of getting ahead just based on merit and not by looks or giving out sexual favors. Your girls will also find out that some men/women will punish them for speaking up and speaking out. In the coming years, your daughters will learn that some bosses will attempt to fire them for not having sex or for becoming pregnant.

In the Access Hollywood hot mic video, you also demonstrate how manipulative a person can be when they are “coaching” a person to “be nice” to a superior. You enabled a man who just bragged about being able to do whatever he wanted because he was rich. This is what your daughters will have to look forward to – a world where the rich, entitled & powerful get away with being a sexual predator because people like you laugh it off and encourage it.

So happy birthday Billy Bush. Thank you for being a pawn in the game and bringing work place ethics and “locker room talk” to the forefront. Thank you for triggering the pain and the anguish of so many (not just) women who have had to put up with sexual harassment, intimidation, unwanted advances and the good old boy type of Neanderthal actions that so many still think are harmless. Trump’s talk – bragging about assaulting women, forcibly kissing them is not normal or harmless. It is sick. Your encouragement is shameful.

Your daughters [and not to forget your wife] like all of us deserve better. So please enjoy your birthday. May it bring you more wisdom and grace. Don’t worry about losing your position at NBC & The Today Show. I’m certain you can get a new job at FOX.
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Donald Trump Is The Manchurian Candidate

Words can not express my disgust over Donald Trump being the GOP nominee for the Presidency of The United States. A man that has little or no self control is one step away from the oval office? Really? Donald Trump is a destructive force that is undermining any good that America stands for.

NBC and the Today Show have suspended Trump’s partner in crime Billy Bush for the leaked lewd video. NBC needs to fire Bush PERIOD! Why they hired him in the first place is beyond me. The Today Show viewership is mostly women and they went with that Bozo!

Here is my thoughts on Trump being “The Manchurian Candidate” in real time, right now.

Donald Trump Enforces Rape Culture & Sexual Abuse

Sometimes I feel America is living vicariously in a snuff film. We are experiencing the Fall of the United States – The Fall of the New Rome. Donald Trump is WRONG for so many reasons. It is unbelievable that the Republican Party didn’t vet their candidate better. How could they not know about all of his misogyny, his harassment, his own 1st wife accusing him of rape and pulling out her hair, his numerous bankruptcies, his ties with the mob, his tax dodging and his numerous lawsuits for not paying contractors?

They had to know. They did know. They believed the simple American people would just go along for the ride. Or they created Trump to cause such a fracture that America never truly recovers.

Donald Trump even sexually objectifies his own daughters. And his entourage laughed it off in interviews as if it is no big deal. So it follows that Trump grooms his girls to be objectified and deemed worthless when they “hit a certain age”. Donald Trump’s numerous documented comments have been going on for decades. His frat boyish immaturity of speaking about and dealing with women is a mentally underdeveloped trait. This man is not fit for the Presidency. He is not morally, intellectually, emotionally, mentally and spiritually qualified for the job. He is an embarrassment to decency. The preponderance of rape culture has to be called out for what it is and the damage that it has done and will do in the future.

Here are more on my thoughts on the most recent lewd leaked video of Billy Bush and Donald Trump speaking about women. It is time for Women to stop allowing this generational accepting of abuse.

Dirty Diana Dasrath & The TMZ Threat

Diana Dasrath was the lesser known Queen of TMZ. Under Harvey Levin, her job was to get the story before anyone else. She ruled with an iron fist. Her mind games were legendary from sabotaging video cameras that her videographers were to use to giving her paps impossible locations to get to in rush hour traffic. She liked to keep her minions on a fire pit of insecurity and mind fucks.

Diana Dasrath came from London worked at WENN a paparazzi agency that once had a pre star Amy Winehouse as a receptionist. The story goes that WENN was a hippie type agency where coke and other party favors were used openly. Once Amy Winehouse became a huge international star, the same agency where she once answered their phones, covered her every move as she stumbled through London town highly addicted to booze and drugs.

WENN probably was the start of Dasrath rise to power where her heart was possibly crushed by a break up by the CEO’s son. Diana became an ice queen out for blood and power. Where could she get the control she so desperately craved? TMZ.

Diana Dasrath made a chess move to the “Thirty Mile Zone” in its heyday when Robertson Blvd was a hot spot for celebs like Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan and Paris Hilton to go shopping, the Ivy restaurant would still get A-listers and one could see a budding wanna be Kim Kardashian begin to make her mark on the reality world.

Diana created a list that had every one who was anyone’s address. And she built up her throne of male underlings that would be on her beck and call to get the story. To say Dasrath was ruthless was an understatement. Diana Dasrath finally had the power she craved and men to break. She was given full reign and for a while TMZ prestige grew.

But cracks were starting to show. There were rumors that drugs were openly used in the TMZ office. The older paparazzi that had made TMZ from the ground up were starting to realize that their iron clad contracts forbid them to pursue other “entertainment’ options such as appearing on other TV shows, getting movie roles or any other pursuit that would be seen as a conflict to the TMZ corporate shackles. They also realized that if they left TMZ they could not based on their contract work for another company with any similarities to TMZ for a period of several years. The harder the videographer worked and produced for Diana Dasrath/TMZ it was never good enough or it was never going to get them a reward. They didn’t own the content that they created and they started to realize working for TMZ has a highly stressful job that lead to serious addictions. One became addicted to the chase of excitement, the need to be constantly up and the lows with dealing with Diana and never getting her approval.

Diana Dasrath besides being an ice Queen she became the mother/lover figure who no matter what one did it was never good enough. She knew how to manipulate that weakness in her subordinates. She knew how to crush a person when they were at their lowest.

How does that connect into me? I watched and listened to stories from videographers complain and discuss Diana Dasrath’s dealings. In September of 2014 I was assaulted and robbed by Marion Suge Knight and Katt Williams. One of Diana’s underlings videotaped the aftermath while the investigating Police officer was taking my initial statement. He said he wasn’t recording he lied. He was. Instead of TMZ reporting on the robbery that night or the next day, they held on to the story. I failed to mention before that Diana Dasrath had multiple reasons for not going forward with the robbery. For one, Dasrath was close pals with Alki David FilmOn/HologramUSA CEO who owned the studio were Marion Suge Knight and Katt Williams were visiting the day when the crime occurred. TMZ had a relationship with Alki posting his P.T. Barnum-esque “entertainment’ stories such as Michael Jackson’s son and George Zimmerman fighting DMZ & Rampage. Alki David loved attention and Diana Dasrath gave it to him via media snippets on TMZ. The truth never matter much to Diana Dasrath and media whores whose only concern is money and power. So TMZ sat on the story until Katt Williams and Suge Knight were arrested a month or so later. But they edited the video clip of what I said to the BHPD. It only included me saying “Suge Knight is Dangerous” or something to that effect. The video was conveniently edited for the promotion of their story.

Diana Dasrath called me and requested a comment. I told her I was not giving one and that I only answered her call out of professional courtesy. In the past I had dealings with TMZ and I also knew how they treated contributors. More often than not contributors were throw under the TMZ bus when a celebrity was involved as was the photographer that was killed chasing the original “Justin BIeber smoking  marijuana story”. During her call, Dasrath said that no lawyers would help me – that she heard I was having difficulty finding an attorney for a civil suit. She seemed so happy and content over my misery. I ended the call with the feeling that my life was going to being fucked in regards to standing up for myself and legally going after the people that assaulted me. I knew TMZ was playing for the other team.

And it was soon proven by several exclusive videos of Katt Williams using TMZ as his bully pulpit to plead his case to the public. First he said there was “ No altercation with that woman”, then he said “that I was alone  with a child in the alley” – he failed to mention that the “child” was Suge Knight’s son and furthermore, who leaves their child unattended in an alley with cars speeding through? He said other untrue things but he didn’t realize that I had video disputing everything he had said on TMZ.

I gave the video to my agent who sold my video to TMZ because I was sick and tired of being used as a pawn on theirs as well as other lazy copy and paste whatever TMZ says sites. We live in a world where people believe the person yelling the loudest even if that person is on drugs or has other mental issues. A person doing their job professionally is given very little respect. Anyway, Diana Dasrath got her wish it has been more than a challenge to get legal help in Los Angeles when Suge Knight has hired so many of this town’s lawyers in previous cases. Also it is difficult to have confidentiality if law firms and their secretaries sell information to TMZ. TMZ used to brag about having so many police, court workers, law firms, valets and more on their payroll and speed dial.

So two years later after the crime that happened to me , Suge Knight stands accused of the murder of Terry Carter. TMZ made a killing repeating ad nauseam the running over of a man as if it was a Grand Theft Auto video game. The same man who was let out on bail on my case was freed on $500,000 bail. Suge Knight who appeared on exclusive TMZ video in a Xmas sweater in front of his beloved red truck threatening his enemies, is now in jail complaining about his health while he awaits trial for murder. My robbery case which happened first, is delayed until after the murder trial due to the seriousness of the Terry Carter case.

As for Katt Williams, he has had numerous run-ins with the law since 2014. To be fair he has had numerous allege crimes before but he has had a flurry in this year alone with 8 at last count. His fans don’t take the crimes/allegations seriously but his victims do.

The survivors of the crimes take violence seriously and the after effects of the medical bills, the stress, the depression and the physical challenges that have to be dealt with. We also can’t help but realize the court system needs some cleaning up so repeat violent offenders are taken off the streets sooner whether they are celebrities or not.

As for Dirty Diana Dasrath she is no longer working for TMZ. The ice Queen has moved on to other entertainment pastures. There was a rumor she was at Access Hollywood but I doubt her need for cruelty and viciousness can be satisfied at such a lily white venue.

Concussions Are Finally Being Taken Seriously

After a century of being a popular sport in America, football is finally taking brain trauma/concussions seriously. When you think about being hit by a person weighing upwards of two hundred pounds whose sole purpose is to violently take you down with a tackle, it is logical that your head would experience significant trauma after multiple hits. The NFL under much pressure has pledged $100 million in concussion research. Promising to do research and actually making changes are two different things. Americans love their violent sports and little about the consequences until it is too late especially if there is significant money and fame to be made. But I digress, any one can suffer from a brain injury/concussion. In the video below I share my story and some of the harrowing symptoms that can happen to you or someone you love…

#DearTRUMP

Dear Trump:

Hello I’m someone you don’t know I’m a Black person self-employed with somewhat of an education. I got my first job at 14 and I have Never been on welfare. Never been arrested. All of my immediate family members are employed and/or have their own businesses. My father, who is deceased, served in the military to a country who did not always treat people with our shade of skin as equal citizens under law. Although my father and I had our differences, I respect him for serving America’s interests even though America didn’t necessarily care about his, mine and our ancestors.

My grandmother always instilled in me the importance of work. Although she dealt with more racism and difficulty than I want to discuss, she made her own empire through hard work and by not making excuses. My grandmother also made sure that her grandchildren had the opportunity to go to some of the finest colleges and universities in the United States. Through her hard work and diligence she left a legacy that generations can be proud of and that we have to live up to.

I just wanted to let you know your ignorance, your arrogance and your deplorable lack of decorum is an insult to all people who believe in the good of humanity and want to do their best to be the best that they can be. You are the epitome of what a Spoiled Privileged Brat becomes when he/she doesn’t have anyone to say “No!” to their insufferable behavior.

Here is a short hand list of your infamy:

• You never served – your privilege got you off

• You have been sued for housing discrimination against Blacks in the 70’s
• You have hired undocumented Polish workers who were paid 4-5 dollars an hour to build Trump tower – they even lived on site
• Your model wife Melania Trump worked in the U.S. before having proper documentation
• You have a long history of lawsuits and fraudulent business dealings as in Trump University
• You are known for not paying your contractors
• Your former teacher and attorney Roy Cohn (right hand twink for Joseph McCarthy during the Red Scare) was instrumental grooming your attack stance
• Your ties to the mob got you concrete and favors in New York
• For such a successful businessman why the numerous bankruptcies?
• Companies owned by you are in $650 million dollars in debt
• Trump you called on Russia to hack Hillary Clinton’s computers
• Your history of misogyny appears to have no bounds you seem obsessed with your daughter Ivanka’s body
• You’ve been accused of raping your first wife – your lawyer doesn’t believe a spouse can be raped
• Sexual harassment seems to be a concept that is too difficult for you to comprehend
• Roger Ailes who was fired from Fox for his sexual harassment and predatory intimidation of female staff is now an advisor to your campaign

Donald, You are a race baiter and you make damaging simpleton statements and generalizations such as Mexico is bringing in rapists. All Muslims should be banned, all Blacks have bad schools and all Black teens don’t have jobs. You try to imply that a vote for you will make everything better. I strongly disagree. If people who share your ignorant and slave master beliefs would get one thing through their vacuous mind – it is people like me are not looking for a hand out. We want to be PAID equitably for our work and respected. We want access to the best schools, best professions and best places to live. In your mind you don’t see us as equal you and those like you see us as less than still all these generations after coming off the plantations that made your families and so many politicians rich. When we do have the money to get a home or an apartment it is more likely that people that share the same mindset as you discriminate against us “moving on up”. Trump people like you are a big part of the problem and you just don’t have enough humanity and decency to feel shame for it.

You have insulted so many people from all walks of life. I find it incredulous that the Republican Party has so little balls to put an end to this tacky reality show for your ego. You would rather destroy everything for your pompous chauvinistic Narcissism than to admit you are a campaign fraud. You are truly a sick man. Your callus insults to hard working people of the United States as well as those who served, is an embarrassment to all conscious souls on earth.

Understanding Why More Victims Of Violence & Abuse Won’t Come Forward

The following essay I wrote in response to the question of why some victims of violent crimes – especially rape don’t come forward. I hope this helps in the better understanding of victims’ mind sets and challenges.

Getting help becomes a full time job in itself.  It takes a considerable amount of time to do research. Finding the right help is paramount. Weeding through doctors, lawyers, clinics, hospitals, websites, referrals, references, emails, phone calls and the police is time consuming and at times frustrating.

Police – over worked, desensitized, might not complete paperwork or conduct proper or thorough investigations. Majority of police are men, and if the victim is a woman there might be power games being played such as the victim being made to feel they are overly emotional and that they should trust the police officer to do their job with no questions asked.

Victim may feel isolated and that they have no one to talk to. They also may feel pressure from family members, loved ones , friends  or co-workers not to come forward, to let the abuse go, or to not go to the authorities. They also may be threaten, intimidated and bullied not to come forward by the assailant(s), attorneys and others in their immediate circle and beyond in social media. Victims also have to contend with people saying it was their fault or that they are lying or it is all in their head – “That they are crazy!”

Shame is a big problem.  Talking about the crime can produce ridicule, self doubt and feelings of low self esteem. Repeating details of the crime or incident to doctors, police officers, lawyers, family and employer may cause further feelings of depression and shame.

Feeling violated again when the details of the crime become public record.

Women tend to be conditioned to not want to cause waves, to give others multiple chances, to take care of others more than they take care of their own needs.

Losing time from work pursuing justice or getting help might not be a viable option for some. Others may not have access to adequate health care or day care.

Getting help is expensive. Paying for transportation to go to appointments, to meet with police, to pay for additional expenses as a result of the crime can be daunting. If a survivor of violence is living pay check to pay check or doesn’t have a source of their own income, leaving or getting professional help may not be an immediate, cost effective or a realistic option.

The mental pain as well as the physical pain may take months, years or a lifetime to manage.

And what I found out in my own case that gave me a greater understanding of why so many women in the Bill Cosby case didn’t or waited years to tell their stories is:  just because one is a victim in a violent crime, there is no guarantee that you will be believed or helped by attorneys who want to make money. All victims of violent crimes are not a slam dunk in the money department and many lawyers don’t want to rock the boat by going up against a “Celebrity” with corporate connections and a fat wallet.

It is the victim’s ultimate choice to come forward and roll the dice or not. There are no guarantees that justice will win but by telling the truth, providing evidence and healing, one may turn from a victim to a survivor to a Thriver thus educating others while repairing one’s self.