Wendy Williams & R. Kelly Hot Topic Hot Mess

So much going on about Wendy Williams and R. Kelly in the media right now. The rumors have been going on for a long time. Sometimes it takes a while – years in some cases for the dirt to cause an avalanche. It seems that both Wendy Williams and R. Kelly are about to face some hard facts and consequences…

Happy Birthday Billy Bush

exclusive-kat-billy-bush-3aAlthough you may be celebrating your birthday under unusual circumstances with the Trump Access Hollywood video backlash, please enjoy your day with your friends & family. Especially your family that includes 3 daughters that someday will have to navigate the dangerous waters of sexual harassment, objectification, power games by superiors and sexual assault. Your daughters will have to someday learn how to {not} expect colleagues to have their back especially when co-workers are trying to be liked by bosses or big wigs.

Your daughters will also have to learn that many men act and think the way their father did in that video. Some men “act” one way in public and another in private. Your children will also learn how challenging it is for women to work in a field where men dominate often with brute force and the difficulty of getting ahead just based on merit and not by looks or giving out sexual favors. Your girls will also find out that some men/women will punish them for speaking up and speaking out. In the coming years, your daughters will learn that some bosses will attempt to fire them for not having sex or for becoming pregnant.

In the Access Hollywood hot mic video, you also demonstrate how manipulative a person can be when they are “coaching” a person to “be nice” to a superior. You enabled a man who just bragged about being able to do whatever he wanted because he was rich. This is what your daughters will have to look forward to – a world where the rich, entitled & powerful get away with being a sexual predator because people like you laugh it off and encourage it.

So happy birthday Billy Bush. Thank you for being a pawn in the game and bringing work place ethics and “locker room talk” to the forefront. Thank you for triggering the pain and the anguish of so many (not just) women who have had to put up with sexual harassment, intimidation, unwanted advances and the good old boy type of Neanderthal actions that so many still think are harmless. Trump’s talk – bragging about assaulting women, forcibly kissing them is not normal or harmless. It is sick. Your encouragement is shameful.

Your daughters [and not to forget your wife] like all of us deserve better. So please enjoy your birthday. May it bring you more wisdom and grace. Don’t worry about losing your position at NBC & The Today Show. I’m certain you can get a new job at FOX.
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Donald Trump Enforces Rape Culture & Sexual Abuse

Sometimes I feel America is living vicariously in a snuff film. We are experiencing the Fall of the United States – The Fall of the New Rome. Donald Trump is WRONG for so many reasons. It is unbelievable that the Republican Party didn’t vet their candidate better. How could they not know about all of his misogyny, his harassment, his own 1st wife accusing him of rape and pulling out her hair, his numerous bankruptcies, his ties with the mob, his tax dodging and his numerous lawsuits for not paying contractors?

They had to know. They did know. They believed the simple American people would just go along for the ride. Or they created Trump to cause such a fracture that America never truly recovers.

Donald Trump even sexually objectifies his own daughters. And his entourage laughed it off in interviews as if it is no big deal. So it follows that Trump grooms his girls to be objectified and deemed worthless when they “hit a certain age”. Donald Trump’s numerous documented comments have been going on for decades. His frat boyish immaturity of speaking about and dealing with women is a mentally underdeveloped trait. This man is not fit for the Presidency. He is not morally, intellectually, emotionally, mentally and spiritually qualified for the job. He is an embarrassment to decency. The preponderance of rape culture has to be called out for what it is and the damage that it has done and will do in the future.

Here are more on my thoughts on the most recent lewd leaked video of Billy Bush and Donald Trump speaking about women. It is time for Women to stop allowing this generational accepting of abuse.